Friday, September 7, 2018

Scale


Everyone always says its the little things and there are a 1000 profound quotes on it. But let me tell you when you have been in love with someone since you were 18, and have raised 2 kids; Let me tell you its the little things, you know when you are right. Remember that pesky scale, lets just say it no longer has a home here in our household AND my loving husband had to say I was right. Of course it was all good natured and we now trade jokes wether a new one will make the other one weigh more but I was right the old one was in fact broken!
I really don’t need a scale that works to tell me I am not completely happy with my body. There are so many reasons why but at the top of the list is the extra spare tire that seems to have taken residence around my middle. I am pretty creative with clothes to keep it hidden. But it is there. When I am in the shower, dancing around trying to decide what to wear because I don’t like any of my clothes because of this new body shape. I could blame my age, hormones, fact is I am lazy and don’t exercise like I should. All of these are partly to blame. So is allowing myself to binge eat in middle of night and grab a Dr. Pepper instead of climbing into bed at a reasonable time and spending quality time with the man who loves me and accepts my spare tire and all. I think I know how to burn some extra calories. No matter what size you are, loving who you are is the most stylish thing of all.

Saturday, September 1, 2018

Harvey Remembered

A year ago the city I have lived in my entire life experienced the worst natural disaster that will haunt many for the rest of their lives. Hurricane Harvey will be one that generations years from now will read about. In all of the heart ache some beauty was experienced. I personally watched so many from all walks of life; no matter race, religion, or financial means came together as a community even from across the country. I have been thinking more about this as I see the posts for the one year anniversary. As I was donating time to help in an way I could. I was also given the opportunity to talk with an old friend who I had been estranged with. As I said, Harvey brought on many things. It felt so good to really talk and listen to what each other had to say. Even though a year later we don’t spend time together, I will always be grateful that we had that time. A part of me, will always miss having her around. Some people always stick with you, but she could not have been a better friend when I needed her in my life. Kind of like great style it never really goes away.
Wherever you are in your memories in the year anniversary with Hurricane Harvey, I hope you can see something beautiful too.